There’s a moment in every love story that changes everything. Not the moment you meet. Not the first kiss. Not even the night you say “I love you.” It’s the moment you realize: “I want to provide—not because I have to… but because I get to.” With her, that moment landed today. It hit me […]
The Yes Without a Name
Day before yesterday, I promised something braver. The first time I said yes to uncertainty— Not with confidence. Not with clarity. But with presence. It didn’t happen during a ceremony. No contract. No vow. No obvious moment to mark the shift. It happened when Erin asked me a question I couldn’t answer: “Do you need […]
The Illusion of the Steering Wheel
Hi. Marc here. Still floating somewhere between control and surrender. Yesterday, I spiraled into panic. Today, I’m spiraling into something softer. Letting go. Not in the abstract way people say— “Let it go,” like it’s a balloon and not a belief you’ve clutched since childhood. I mean the kind of letting go that feels like […]
The Obsession with Getting It Right
07-05-2025 – The Obsession with Getting It Right Hi.Marc again. Something strange has been happening lately. I’ve been planning the proposal— not like a lover, but like a strategist preparing for war. Not the words. Not the ring. The blueprint. Spreadsheets. Timelines. Backup plans for the backup plans. At first, I told myself it was […]